Marami sa atin ang nangangarap na yumaman and sick being poor and skint. We fantasised those moments when we can go to the shops and shop until we have nothing to buy, not looking on the price tags. We are dying to spend time a nice holiday cruise in the Caribbean or jetting to Paris for a very nice vacation or even as simple as not being able to wake up early mornings, beat the morning traffics and sit in office for 8 long hours waiting to clock out for 5pm.
We dream all those possible things that we wanted to do, building a charitable foundations, help our parents, give our family's needs for the rest of their lives.
BUT, the problem is we are too lazy to take a single step.
We are too anxious of what will happen if we took that first steps.
We are afraid of the uncertainties.
When I was a kid, I did not know anything about laziness, anxiousness, or fear. I just get on with it as if I don't have any choice. In order for me to get poverty and hardships in life is to chase that dream and until now I am chasing dreams.
Hindi naging at magiging madali. I met a lot of challenges and I'm sure you will meet loads but the most important thing is you know how to recognise and accept those challenges.
First thing that we should do in taking the first steps is, We should possess that attitude of a child.
Success is not a overnight occurrence. It is not as if we can have a magic wand and by waving it, we can success in a silver platter. I would like to share to you that FEAR is only a state of mind. When we are born we didn't have this concept of fear. When we were kids, we tried everything we wanted to try, we explored and learned by means of trying them. We learned to walk by falling down and getting up a 1000 times.
The key thing is We have to Know What We Want to do. Nothing is worst when we are sailing but we don't have plan of course, it is not only dangerous but it will take the whole journey to no where. It will take up all your time and energy. Hindi pwedeng come what may na lang.
The next key thing is have a Plan. May be start by learning the basics of what you want to achieve. Pull all the resources possible you might need and do it in a timely manner. Having a time frame on when you would want to achieve it will help you stay on course on your plan. This will help you eliminate some uncertainty, take away your anxiousness and your fear because you are taking a careful and calculated plans and that would save you from worrying of the unknown and the what ifs. Kapag ginagawa mo to, hindi ka lang naglalagay ng may TIMON but you also directed with a compass.
Planning is mapping your journey in attaining you goal. Plan is a blue print of what you wanted to do. You might want to be a restaurant owner, a successful Vloger in youtube, a hotel owner or a great performing actress. To make those dreams a reality you got to have to plan it.
The last key thing you should learn is to implement and execute your plan. Marami akong kilala na nagplano ng kanilang mga gustong gawin pero hindi natuloy. The most difficult in pursuing your dream is executing your plan. A lot of people did not get over that next hurdle. Most of the time, planning is overwhelming and they got lost along the day. To make sure that you will pass this through na nakatulong din sa akin personally is have an Inspiration. What kept my dreams alive is I never stop looking for inspirations. When I was a kid dreaming to finish my college I was inspired of the fact that if I get through this, I will be helping my mum and dad and I will be setting examples for my siblings. I would like them to aspire the way I aspire for something. Now, I wanted to do more because I want my kids to aspire the same. That, there is limitation on things you wanted to do in life and no one could ever tell them that they can't do it.
Making those first steps is hard but once you start walking, it will get easier.
Good luck and have a great journey.
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