Ang isa sa mga bagay na pumipigil sa atin para maging masaya is yung pagiging maingitin natin. Mahirap maging masaya kung hindi tayo nagiging masaya sa success ng iba.Sa mga kaibigan ko dito sa facebook hindi masamang tumingala sa success ng iba, but we should use it as inspirations for us to succeed too. The worst thing that we could do is look and and bring them down. Crab mentality is one of the worst characteristics that destroy people, destroy relationships, and destroy oneself. 
There are so many people like this and I tell you guys, it is hard to be happy. Habang nakikita mo ang malalapit na tao sa buhay mo, your friends, colleague at work succeeding, there is rat eating you inside. The most horrible feeling I could imagine.But how can we free up ourselves in this imprisonment? Ano ba ang kailangan natin gawin para mabago ang ating pananaw. There are 3 Things I want to share to you today.
1. Learn to Appreciate you have. Until we value the things we have, we will never be contented of what we have. Palagi natin hahangarin ang pag aari ng iba. We will always be unhappy dahil hindi nakikita ang halaga ng mga bagay na meron tayo, ng mga taong nakapaligid sa atin. I tell you a story. There was this woman, she is beautiful at her 30s. She is single, she has a good job, drive a slightly new car and have a fair bit of money in the bank. But one thing is lacking from her-relationships. She is single because the last relationship she had her BF left her from another woman. She has very little friends. All of these because, she drove them away. She always wanted to be the the first one buying new clothes. She has to be the first one to have the latest phone and she will be not be pleased if someone has one and she hasn't. She will talk about her friends behind their backs. She never appreciate what she had.
2. Don't Compare yourself to others. Comparing yourself to others is a form of immaturity. Every people has different circumstances. Wag mong sabihin na bakit si ganito ay kayang bumili ng ganito, palaging nag babakasyon, pashopping shopping lang eh parehas lang naman ang sahud namin at hindi naman nagkakalayo ang status namin sa buhay. This is wrong. If you do this, then you are missing those what you have. That maybe wala kang utang, or you spend your money in a sensible investment, or maybe you spend your money helping your family and friends. Appreciating those benefits make you to look less on others but appreciate more of what you have been doing. If you stop comparing yourself to others, you will be able to liberate yourself from aspiring what others have.
3. Move on, Move on din pag may Time. Hindi nyo ba napapansin na bakit hindi ka makaalis alis sa pagka inggit sa kapit bahay mo, sa friend mo or sa kapamilya mo is because you can't let go. You can't accept the fact that he/she did better what you did. You think that you came from the same background, you came from the same family, you have the same circle of friends eh bakit he/she is more successful than you or bakit he/she is loved better than you? May be you need to do something about that instead of bringing others down with. Letting go your emotions and you envy is better than carrying the whole load your entire life. Mas masayang makitang masaya ang iba kesa nagpupuyus kang makita ang ibang masaya. So move on now.
You have to remember, ang inggit ay parang anay yan na sisira sa lahat ng relasyon meron ka. Wag mong hayaan na before you realise, you drove your loved ones away from you.
Have a good day Everyone.
There are so many people like this and I tell you guys, it is hard to be happy. Habang nakikita mo ang malalapit na tao sa buhay mo, your friends, colleague at work succeeding, there is rat eating you inside. The most horrible feeling I could imagine.But how can we free up ourselves in this imprisonment? Ano ba ang kailangan natin gawin para mabago ang ating pananaw. There are 3 Things I want to share to you today.
1. Learn to Appreciate you have. Until we value the things we have, we will never be contented of what we have. Palagi natin hahangarin ang pag aari ng iba. We will always be unhappy dahil hindi nakikita ang halaga ng mga bagay na meron tayo, ng mga taong nakapaligid sa atin. I tell you a story. There was this woman, she is beautiful at her 30s. She is single, she has a good job, drive a slightly new car and have a fair bit of money in the bank. But one thing is lacking from her-relationships. She is single because the last relationship she had her BF left her from another woman. She has very little friends. All of these because, she drove them away. She always wanted to be the the first one buying new clothes. She has to be the first one to have the latest phone and she will be not be pleased if someone has one and she hasn't. She will talk about her friends behind their backs. She never appreciate what she had.
2. Don't Compare yourself to others. Comparing yourself to others is a form of immaturity. Every people has different circumstances. Wag mong sabihin na bakit si ganito ay kayang bumili ng ganito, palaging nag babakasyon, pashopping shopping lang eh parehas lang naman ang sahud namin at hindi naman nagkakalayo ang status namin sa buhay. This is wrong. If you do this, then you are missing those what you have. That maybe wala kang utang, or you spend your money in a sensible investment, or maybe you spend your money helping your family and friends. Appreciating those benefits make you to look less on others but appreciate more of what you have been doing. If you stop comparing yourself to others, you will be able to liberate yourself from aspiring what others have.
3. Move on, Move on din pag may Time. Hindi nyo ba napapansin na bakit hindi ka makaalis alis sa pagka inggit sa kapit bahay mo, sa friend mo or sa kapamilya mo is because you can't let go. You can't accept the fact that he/she did better what you did. You think that you came from the same background, you came from the same family, you have the same circle of friends eh bakit he/she is more successful than you or bakit he/she is loved better than you? May be you need to do something about that instead of bringing others down with. Letting go your emotions and you envy is better than carrying the whole load your entire life. Mas masayang makitang masaya ang iba kesa nagpupuyus kang makita ang ibang masaya. So move on now.
You have to remember, ang inggit ay parang anay yan na sisira sa lahat ng relasyon meron ka. Wag mong hayaan na before you realise, you drove your loved ones away from you.
Have a good day Everyone.
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